It's mainly her idea... I described her as modern, but there's actually a fairly complicated psychology behind it all... coming to terms with being a modern woman while having been raised as a relatively traditional Catholic... in any event, I'm back on the fence about allowing her to get me a guitar at ALL, but she's been insisting that I at least tell her which one I want. If nothing else, it makes a great excuse to revisit all the guitars that I esteem. Parker is a good one! Waiting list, though, no?
To answer another question: if "engagement" wasn't attached to it, I would be spending the money to get a Soulmate neck-through, some wood for "wings", a Kahler trem, and some electronics and building a guitar. <chuckle>
In terms of off-the-shelf, I've been pleasantly surprised and completely satisfied with my Cort Pagelli. As it turns out, THAT one is really special to me despite having been a fairly inexpensive purchase. We agreed to have small budgets for Christmas this year (not because we're COMPLETELY broke or anything, but just because we tend to go overboard), but she knows I'd been wanting a guitar. So she took her small portion, added it to the amount she would've spent on my birthday (Dec 29) and also collected the money her family and my sister would've spent on socks, sweaters 'n stuff. Even though they were all humble amounts and the guitar is humble, it really meant a lot to me and I love that axe. In some ways, an "engagement" guitar loses a bit of its appeal by comparison to the effort she put into organizing the Pagelli purchase and getting it for me to my complete surprise!
The big picture: she rocks for humouring my love of guitars.
Greg